Am I the asshole if I tell my friend that they’re being stringed along by my other friend? My friend (M 25) and my other friend (F 23) have been hooking up for awhile and one of them is interested and the other isn’t and they’re pulling them along should I tell them?

Backstory: I met both of my friends through work and we still work together. Honestly I’m less fond of F23 she has proven that she a self centered person but we work together so I just keep the relationship amicable. My friend (M 25) has had a crush on my other friend (F 23) for at least two years now when she started working at our job but she has had a boyfriend until they broke up recently. The ex partially broke up with her because he thought she was micro-cheating on him with coworker (M 25). M25 did try to kiss F23 once before her and her ex broke up so this made the break up a whole lot messier.

M25 has a huge crush on F23 and now that they’re hooking up he thinks that something more is coming out of their relationship. At work last week F23 told me that M25 has been asking the “What are we” and “Where is this going” questions. The problem is M25 has been telling everyone he’s seeing someone and not talking to other girls. A girl texted him asking to go out and get drinks and he said he shouldn’t because he’s been talking to this girl for awhile (F23). F23 though constantly talks about her roster and all the guys she wants to hook up with and how she doesn’t know if it’s awkward if she can hookup with all of them while talking to M25. F23 told me she gets uncomfortable and I asked why and she said it’s because they’re never going to date and she’s just having fun. F23 also makes fun of him for asking the relationship status questions. They now hangout every single day and go to events with each other and he’s really starting to believe they’re together . I’m the only person she has told that she’ll never date him so I don’t know if it’s my place to say anything.

Should I tell M25 that she’s just stringing him along for a good time and that she’s not taking the relationship seriously or should I just butt out?