Hi, Willow here. I broke up with my boyfriend (20 M) a few days ago after not knowing him for very long. I knew that he was freaky (I’m friends with a few of his exes), but I never thought that it would go against one of my boundaries the way it did.

Let’s say we were about to make.. cookies and were taking off our aprons before we kneaded the dough. He told me as we were undressing that he wanted me to put on an outfit to “satisfy a kind of mine (his)”. Usually, I would be fine with this and did the same thing with an ex. The only issue I had was the outfit itself. He wanted me to dress up as Chucky and for him to have his way with me dressed like that. For context, he knows that I’m deathly afraid of clowns and such and still asked me to dress as that. We were at his house and I had driven there, so I put on my clothes and left. The next morning I broke up with him over text and he let all of my friends know and they called me an asshole.

So, am I the asshole for doing this?? Please let me know your thoughts because I think he knew that he would be breaking one of my set boundaries.