Im 18yo girl and all ppl in this are 17-18yo girls I have alot of friends in the way that I have a friend in every class and some I even hangout with outside of school. It's pretty easy to make friends for me now but it wasn't always like that. I was bullied badly in middle school and to make a long story short I now have crippling anxiety but I'm getting better. I ACTUALLY HAVE FRIENDS NOW AND A JOB I LOVE. I'm still crazy shy but it's not as bad anymore. I worked hard to get to where I am.

Back to the point I only REALLY have 3 friends. Most of my friends are just classmates I've known for years so we hangout casually. I don't have a friend group either. I kind of just float from person to person. It doesn't bother me now that I'm a senior in hs as much as it did in middle school. 2 of my 3 best friends are twins and another I only met this year but we hangout at least once a week. I don't know if it's senioritis getting to me or what but I can't wait to leave 2 of them behind.

One of the twins is so hateful im gonna call her carmen. She cannot see someone who doesn't fit her standards without saying something rude and ive been dealing with it for four years. One of my casual friends has purple hair. I cannot mention them without carmen making a dirty face and if they come to talk to me carmen will walk away and say something rude outloud. I mentioned my prom date (who is a car guy) and she said oh!... that was kinda my last straw cause hes just a guy who doesnt even know she exists. I cannot bring up ANYONE to her or she will get judgy and just downright hateful. She only ever listens to kpop and she stays in her room all the time and I try to include her but she constantly cancels plans right before. She never does anything. Im an outdoorsy person so no I don't want to sit in my room and watch tiktoks next to you no thanks. She won't even go to prom or go to any school activities with me bc it's 'cringe' to be involved in school. I had to basically drag her to hoco after she tried to bail on me.

The second person isn't the twin its the other girl I recently met. I'll call her macy. We met august in a class we had together. I loved hanging out with her and I genuinely thought we would be friends forever. But then she got equally hateful. Once again I'm an outdoorsy person. I don't like to buy alot of cheap clothes just to mess up the environment either. But she drops 200$+ on the regular for all her clothes on shien. I'd rather spend 200$+ on a couple well made, lasting items. This means I don't have alot of clothing. It has never bothered me. That's why we have washing machines. But I cannot wear my favorite sweater or my favorite pairs of jeans without her commenting on how I always wear the same thing. And she ALSO WEARS YHE SAME 4 OUTFITS. Yes she buys alot but they fall apart so fast she just ends up going back to the same 4 outfits like it's a fashion statement. Im tired of her always judging me. I also cannot mention a band i like cause I'm 'obsessed'. But when I don't talk to her she acts like I stabbed her dog. I mentioned one of my middle school bullies came through my work the other day and she just said "LMAO ok" and started telling me about her latest man. Oh and she talks to 20+yo on snap then gets upset when they are creepy to her. Always on about 'my man' 'my man' just stop already idgaf abt ur 24yo creepy man when you're 17. That's all ill say about her but I just can't deal anymore.

The third girl is amazing. I'll call her violet. I have deep talks with her. We're honest with eachother when something bothers us. I offer advice abt college admissions since I already did it in the fall. She's shyer than me so she makes me come out of my shell and I love that abt her. The only thing I don't like are her other friends bc they are just like the 1st twin. Hateful, no dreams or aspirations. I'll never tell her that bc she loves them but she has dreams and goals and they keep her from doing that bc it's 'cringe'. She's the only one I really like bc she's always up for something and I love her for that.

Now for my final breaking point. Me and macy planned a camping trip in November before I started to get annoyed with her. I'm so excited for the trip bc even though she annoys me I still think of her fondly and im gonna miss when she didn't talk to random men online and shame me for my interests. This has been planned for minimum 5 months. All 4 of us were gonna go together. We have all the camping gear and the site and we all pooled our money. Then yesterday twin #1 asks if I would be mad if she didn't go. ?????. I obviously said yes(my dad said we can only go if there is 4 of us or more for safety reasons). I said it's pretty short notice since the trip is in 4 days. She says ok nvm and tells me it's bc she doesn't like macy. I think to myself, 'well ofc, it'd be easier to name all the people you like than the people you dislike'. But I don't actually respond bc I couldn't tell if she was tryna start something or what. I left it at that. Later that SAME DAY I tell macy I'm going to start packing on Friday cause I have work all day Saturday. She laughs and says why pack when im only gonna wear the same clothes everyday. I just looked at her and asked her what she meant by that and just acted dumb because why would she say that? I voiced my concerns to violet and she agreed they were being weird but carmen is her sister so I could expect much of a response. If this camping trip wasn't planned months prior id drop both of them now. I can't take it anymore. I'm so tired of the negativity and hatred those two girls have for everything.

Would I be an asshole for dropping them. I already dropped a gay guy who wouldn't accept the fact I'm not a lesbian and am intact straight and kept telling me to come out. So I feel like this isn't too far off.

Tldr: 2 of my 3 besties are assholes who do nothing in their lives except complain and sit in their rooms. Would I be a bad person for thinking it's a valid reason to drop them.