Last week my wife and I went to a festival it was our first one so we didn’t know what to expect. Day one there was A Lot of walking and we were both sore and exhausted at the end of the day. My wife ended up getting blisters on her feet. The first night we got home late so we just washed them and tended to them first thing in the morning next day. She stated that after the bandaids it was a little better. So we ended up going to the second day just later since we wanted to rest and tend to her blisters. We saved the walk going to the festival by catching a guy offering rides. She stated her feet started hurting after a bit so after the first performance I advised we go to the medical center. She hesitated going saying she was embarrassed but I pushed her to go. We ended up going after more pushing. She asked if there was anything they could do for blisters. She asked specifics like a cream or whatnot. They said all they had was Tylenol. We asked if anyone could look at it and they said they didn’t have anyone. It was two others in there attending to people. We ended up leaving. Outside the center I said are you going to be ok? Should we go to the hospital. She stated they would laugh at her for coming for blisters and she didn’t want the wait. So went on to enjoy the festival. She walked by leaning on me and that was fine. She didn’t sit and continued to dance during performances so I’m thinking she’s ok. It’s the end of the festival and we have a 37min walk. At the end of the festivals she’s in a lot of pain and we go to another medical center and they say the same thing. She ask for a chair to sit down and removes her shoe and sock. The lady says we can wrap it but it’s not much else we can do unless you want to go to the hospital. They wrap it and she says it’s better. I confirm she doesn’t want to go to the hospital. Then we do our walk. I tell her to just hold on to me and communicate what she needs and I’ll lead us to the car. I have no service but remembered the way back. She has tot take a few breaks and that’s fine I’m chilling. We finally get to the street and I ask if she wants me to call an uber. The price was going to be ridiculous but I figure I’d at least check it out. She states she’s fine and she can make it. We continue walking and we come across a cop who is blocking a road for the festival. Sees us taking our time and ask if we are ok. She blurts out that she had blisters and scoliosis and it’s a lot to walk right now. He can’t leave his post but tells us there are more cops further up and to flag them if we need help. A block up it’s a guy with a bike and a carriage attached. I ask him how much for just her to ride because I can make the walk and I’ll just follow them. She tells me no don’t worry about it I can make it. I start telling her to just get in but she keeps pushing back. Talking about the money. The guy says “you’re the man make her get in”. Then she gets in -__-.

So now on the ride home she’s telling me I should’ve told the cop to help my wife because she needed it. And apparently I’m not a real man because I didn’t advocate harder for her during this ordeal. When I asked her why she didn’t just let me do the uber then or why she fought me with the guy she said it’s because I asked her for money twice. I asked her to Apple Pay my friend who bought a drink for me because I couldn’t Apple Pay with my credit card and I asked for $8 for the hold on the hotel because I was short that amount. I had JUST paid for lunch and the guy on the bike so if I’m offering. Clearly I know my finances.

AITAH

TLDR: my wife got blisters day one of the festival. Day 2 she was in more pain but she’s mad at me because she feels I didn’t advocate more for her despite us both hearing there wasn’t anything the medical center could do. She is also mad because I didn’t make the copper ran into help us.