Is it wrong that I don’t feel sad after a breakup, even though he was the one who left me? I know I was the one at fault — I fell in love with someone else and ended up cheating on him. I know I broke something valuable, and yet I don’t feel devastated or heartbroken. I feel more guilt than sadness. Is that normal? Is it possible to be the one who did wrong and still feel emotionally detached from the end of the relationship? Do you think it is valid for me to love the other person the mam i fell in love with me recently ?