By Frequent_Trainer_880 • Score: 4 • April 10, 2025 2:29 PM
Sorry but there might end up being a quite a bit of text cause I want to give as much context as I can. So I was sat at work and got a random message from now ex absolutely kicking off saying that I’m showing interest in other girls and that she’s done. I of course questioned it not having a clue what she was talking about, to which she eventually said I was liking pictures of other girls (in between calling me a pos). I was still confused and asked her if it was a picture of ‘A’ (I’ll refer to her as A), and she said yes. I then went on trying to explain that ‘A’ is a friend I’ve know for years, I used to work with them and there has never been anything between us, she has had a boyfriend the whole time I’ve known her so it’s always just been on a friends level, and I just have random periodic convos with her but hadn’t spoken to her for months at this point. Ex was not having any of it and just kept going at me. I would understand if I was liking pics of random girls or like half naked pics or whatever, but it was like a selfie of shoulders up of a friend I’ve know ages. Ex kept arguing that I never mentioned her, but why would I mention someone I haven’t talked to in months, I had been with ex 5 months and hadn’t talked to ‘A’ the whole time knowing her so the thought obviously never entered my mind to mention her. She kept saying stuff like oh I’ve seen you liking peoples pictures before, and again I was confused. I then went on fb and insta and they can both show you everything you’ve liked previously, so I screen recorded everything I’d liked on both of them since I started seeing her and sent it to her. There was nothing else I’d liked on fb and there was 3 pics of girls I’d liked on insta, 1 of which was of ‘A’ who is a friend, 2nd was of a friend I went to school with who had pics in Japan so I solely liked them cause of Japan (I’m a fan of everything Japanese and went last year and want to go back), and the 3rd was again of a friend but I don’t know her very well. But I tired explaining to ex that there’s nothing to it and I was literally just liking pics of friends the same as I would guy friends. But no she didn’t want to hear it. She also has a guy friend who she’s pretty close with that she’ll go out drinking with and whatever who she did tell me about at the start but I’ve never questioned or said anything cause I was just like I trust you so it doesn’t matter. So I feel like for her to then kick of about me liking a friends pic is kinda shitty when she’s literally got a guy best friend. Also want to add, she then blocked my number and on fb and then unfollowed me on both her personal and business insta cause she was saying she was done, so I then had it in my mind that I have to move on from it so unfollowed her business insta but then felt shit cause I admit I did miss her so I didn’t unfollow her other account. I then tried to message her to want to work things out but then she kicked of about me unfollowing her account? She’s literally blocked or unfollowed me on everything but is kicking off about me unfollowing one account like come on.
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