📝 Am I projecting?

By jgoigle • Score: 3 • April 6, 2025 6:20 AM


I have a friend at work. I guess you can say they're on the extroverted side. We didn't get close until like a year ago, but every time someone new comes in, it seems like I'm pushed to the side. I don't get invited when plans are made. They become very close and I feel like they only invite me when they remember or feel bad. I feel left out and to be honest I'm used to this since I was younger. Recently, we both moved to a new workplace, and now I guess I'm pushed to the side again. They've become friends with someone and I feel like I'm like bothering them. They go to lunch together, drive to work together, go out make plans. And people at work say they're the two best friends. Mind you we started 3 months ago. I'm starting to keep to myself a lot more. I don't know if it's me being weird or maybe I just need new friends. Idk it does kinda hurt too. This is the third time l've felt this way.

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