so to get the backstory of this right, my mom left for 5 years when i was 11-12 and she just left me at my aunts house for my dad to pick me up. i stayed with my dad and he got custody of us, and throughout the time she left i tried messaging and trying to see if she was okay, she answered one day and we started talking again, i thought she would’ve been better, but she just turned out to be worse. i moved in with her after a couple months of talking to her again and she yelled at me on the first day. there are some people im just gonna write the first letter of their names, t, o, and p. p, was my best friend of 4 years. when i met t she lied to me about her age, i was 17 at the time she told me she was 16, but was actually 13 or 14. we were still friends for a bit after that and one of t’s friends was o. and she ended up hanging out with us a lot too. mom didn’t like this when i lived with her, and my little sister was living there too, so she would talk crap to my little sister about me and things she didn’t like about me like how my music was too loud or i had friends over all the time or whatever, and she then kicked me out on new years cuz i didn’t get a job within 2 weeks. t, and o, continued to go over after i was kicked out, i thought my mother wanted space so i didn’t text but id ask her for rides sometimes and she used to complain about me using her as a taxi, when i just wanted to spend time with her. i then came over a lot and spent a lot of time with her, but every time i was over there, so was t, and o. now my ex best friend, p, was living another province away and she came to mine to come stay with me for a little bit. and she went to moms with me all the time when i went. my mom would treat her way better than she treats both me and my younger sister. so, the really big issue, is i stopped liking t and o a while ago like a long time ago and i told my mom that. i told her if she continues to talk to children that aren’t even my friends any more, then id be upset about it. and her reasoning to why she still talks to them, is that it’s “less time and gas” for them to walk to moms (because they lived closer) then to grab me, and spend time with her own daughter, and at one point i was so upset, because t and o were literally using my mom for what she could give them and not who she rly is, i tried to get t jumped, and then didn’t go through because t found out and told my mom and my mom took her side instead of mine. and then on top of that (this might not be that huge of a deal but it was to me at the time) i had gotten a package delivered to my grandparents house and i asked my mom to drop it off to my place, she brought t and o with her, which i at this point really don’t like them. and she asked me to come grab my package, i asked if they were with her, she said “ it’s not that big of a deal.” my breaking point, was when she took o to my GRANDPARENTS when i hadn’t gone for MONTHS because i have piercings and mom didn’t want to bring me there. so she took o instead. so i told my best friend this, p, and i don’t remember what she said to me but she ended up going to my moms literally the day after. after i was talking about wanting to cut off my mom because she was treating me like more of a distant relative she doesn’t really talk to rather than her actual daughter. so i cut p off too, becuase i feel like that’s just straight up disrespectful. let me know your thoughts, aita?