📝 Am I the asshole for yelling at my dad?

By notyourangel2- • Score: 3 • April 15, 2025 11:12 PM


TW!!

Some background info: I'm adopted, I got adopted at age 14. Throughout my whole life I was in human trafficking and abused mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually. And because of this I'm not good at setting boundaries, but one of them I set down when I first got adopted was don't come into my room without permission.

Okay so I F(15) was changing in my room, when my father knocked on my door. I simply said "please don't come in I am naked" and he knocked twice more and I repeated myself. Instead of waiting my father walked in holding my baseball, and I screamed to get out and that he was sick. He walked away and I closed the door, then had a panic attack. PTSD flashbacks went through my head and my boyfriend, who we will call E, after calming me down said that my father walking in after I had mentioned I was naked was sick and disgusting, and said to tell my mom. I decided to listen to his advice and told my mom, and her response was simply "seems like you just hate it here" which really hurt me, because before this I had no problems here. But I told her the next time my father walked in on me naked I wasnt gonna just scream I'd call the police. So am I the asshole for yelling at my mom for not taking my dad looking at me naked seriously?

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