By Suspicious_Pick_5217 • Score: 0 • April 15, 2025 8:45 AM
So my story is like this: Started talking to a guy a couple of months ago. We saw each other once and in March I was supposed to visit his city and stay for a couple of days. I've informed him a couple of times before of my arrival, hour and day and we were supposed to meet. Fast forward I arrive, he didn't text for a couple of days before and neither on the morning of my arrival, it's afternoon still no message so I write to him an "Hi" to which he responds by asking me when I will arrive. I was upset over this, as I told him several times before, anyway, he asks to meet that day and informs me that he will leave his city tomorrow as he as an unexpected business trip, which made me more sad about the whole situation because he left me the impresion that we will meet in all the days I will stay there. Later that day I was out to a dinner with a friend and he told me to inform him when I am done so we can meet. It's like 7/8PM and he stops replying, my last message to him was that I am free an we can meet. He enters the app where we talk (Telegram) but does not open the message which he could see without opening and thats it, till the next morning no sign from him, he wasn't even online on any other social media app. In the morning he says that he left his phone at the office and that he wants to meet today. I felt it was kinda odd that he forgot his phone when we were supposed to meet but anyway I gave him the benefit of the doubt. We met, everything was fine and he asks me when I will leave on my last day as he may perhaps be able to come see me one more time in case he arrives from his trip. He then left, messaged me later that night asking how is my night, I reply in the morning, he replies back to which I reply as a normal conversation but he no longer answers, fast forward it's the day of my departure, no sign from him, he did not enter the app where we talk for more than a day. I message him asking when will he return today? To which he only replied almost when my plane was leaving saying he did not leave his trip yet. I felt bad about this whole situation and how we comunicated and left him on seen. Almost a week later he messages me saying Hi, to which at first I gave another seen because I had a sudden call and could not write back, but after 45min I message him back with a Hi. He leaves me on seen and that was it. 2 days later I message him saying that we need to talk about this and that I am upset over his way of comunicating. To which he starts coming up with excuses for the last day, that he could not come earlier but does not say anything about how he handled the whole situation and he also says that he is super busy these days to which I told him that I understand and that I only wish for him to understand me as well, he says he does and I say okey then, I will let you as you are busy, to which he leaves me on seen. A week later still nothing from him but I see on Facebook that he was in my city for a business trip. I felt so sad seeing that. Still no message from him but later that evening he reacts to my Instagram story. I was extemely confused at this point. Does he want me to contact him? Why does he not text me? It's been almost 2 weeks now. Half a week goes by again and still nothing from him so I text him telling him that the whole situation makes me confused and that I would like to know what is happening and why is he acting like this. He is not texting but he is liking my picture which makes me question that he does not have time for talking but has time for looking at what I post? I told him that I could not treat the people close to me like that and that I do not accept others treating me like such and that I only wish to know what does he want. Does he wish to stop talking to me or does he still want us to talk? And that if he wants to talk, can he respect me? As this whole situation is not respect. To which he LEFT ME ON SEEN! It is half a week since he left me on seen, he still has me added on all socials but no message. Can you guys help me understand what does this mean? Did i do something wrong by saying he does not respect me? Is this too much and I am the aswhole?What does he want? So he will not talk to me but still keep me added everywhere? In my case I would have deleted him everywhere or blocked him if talking was something that I would no longer want. This is why I can't understand his game. For it is clear that he is no longer interested but the whole situation confuses me. So he insists on seeing each other, I go to his city, he forgots and had bad comunication, we see each other he asks about my schedule because he wants to see me again but he does not make it and after that he kinda ignores me?
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