I (F14) has 2 siblings, "Janie" (F18) and "bill" (11M). As a kid, my sister was the greatest achiever, winning spelling bees and scholarships, while bill was a mommas boy. I was stuck in the middle. My parents always denied favouring my siblings, but i could see hints. Taking my sister out for dinner when she won a trivia tournament, or skipping my performances because my brother needed something. My mom yelled at me for losing a geography bee, and i had to become more like my sister.

Anyways, a couple of days ago, my sister and my mom were discussing their trip to the capital for some cancer event, when my mom said that she signed me up for it and I would be going. I asked her why she would sign me up for this behind my back, and my mom said,” Oh, you don’t do anything and i don’t even trust on anything’’. I got mad and told my mom that she was controlling and I wouldn’t go. Now my sister is saying i am a Ahole for hurting my mom in a time of grieving (my grandmother died a few days ago). ATIA