📝 Family issues

By MindlessHotel4564 • Score: 0 • April 20, 2025 4:00 PM


So my husband was accused of SA my niece. She is 13 years old. Well while investigating took place my husband lost his job, started contemplating suicide, became super depressed, had to move out of the home and couldn’t be around us or his kids without Dcs supervision. (Yes Dcs became involved because I stated to the police I believe my husband is innocent and apparently it’s “failure to protect at that point) Well I stood behind him because I know he did not do it. Which caused my family to choose sides. My uncle chose mine and my mom chose to back up my sister and niece. It also caused a big fight with some words that I am not proud of but do not regret because it’s true. But now it has been proven that my husband had been cleared and to make matters worse, no male dna found what so ever on/in her. Now my sister is trying to act like nothing happened and stating I should forgive her because she’s a child but I don’t want anything to do with them or her child. Am I wrong to move on without them in our lives? Or should I forgive and move on because a 13 year old apparently doesn’t know any better which I am not buying. On top of that during all of this nonsense, I gave guardianship of my teen to grandma because they felt a 6 year gap between siblings is to much and he is a danger to his younger siblings (Dcs stated and I was trying to keep my family together the best I could since my husband had to move out and I had to choose between my 2 younger kids going into they system or my teen going to family) my family is trying to pick up the pieces now that my husband is back in the home but I feel that my sister and her family is best left in the past and not part of our future. AITAH

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