me and my ex were arguing but we still loved eachother... she asked to see me in person. I showed up and i said my piece. she started gaslighting me and getting upset with me. I interrupted a few times and then she kept telling me to shut up. then i said stop talking to me like that and she kept doing it then pointed her finger in my face and kept waving it around. Something about that made me so fuckin upset. i've never even felt the need to be this mad at her. I grabbed her wrist pretty hard and she started crying and tried getting out of the car by this point i knew what i had done and i was desperate to apologize but she was scared she thought something was gonna happen. (i've never laid a finger on her our entire relationship and even afterwards) she grew up being beaten and watched her mom get beat by men. But like i said i was desperate this time and i grabbed her hoodie and pulled her back in the car asking her not to leave this sounds fucking terrible as i write it out. i let go because at this point i'm like wtf did i just do. She runs out of the car and i called her asking her to come back i wanted to tell her i'm sorry and how disgusting i felt afterwards. she said she never wanted to talk to me again and got out. she texts me and says her brother wants to talk. I'm 150 5'11 he's 350 6'1 i would've got crushed by him. Anyways I told her i don't wanna talk to him and at this point i'm pulling up to my house then i see someone knocking on my window its her fucking brother. he's kicking my window he's trying to break my car he gets on top of my car and i speed up forward and reversed backwards and he kept doing this for like 10 minutes until i got out of my driveway and drove away. What do y'all think about this??