📝 Help

By Few-Tough-4203 • Score: 1 • April 27, 2025 2:36 PM


Im 15f and my bf 16f and we met around 6 months ago. He makes me feel amazing but some days he will be really sweet and loving and sometimes he will go abit to far with jokes and say a lot of hurtful stuff that honestly makes me cry but I’m so scared to tell him to stop just incase he brakes up with me but the hurtful words have been getting alot more recent for example I had butterfly locs and I took them out which caused me to have a massive bald spot on the side of my head and I was thinking of shaving my head and restarting because my hair is already really damaged but at the same time and I asked for his opinion multiple times and he told me each time that he will love me regardless or what I do to my hair. But today we where just texting and he said “haha your on the bus and I’m at home” and I said “aha I’m getting fresh air and your not” and he started with the mean comments and one in particular made me start crying. He started calling me baldy even tho I haven’t even shaved my head or anything. And this really hurt me in a way I can’t really describe. I feel like this is a start of a. Toxic relationship because it starts with the little things but I can’t bring myself to confront him or say anything to him and tell him this hurts me. I’m really stuck I know it doesn’t seem that bad but I just need help on if I’m over reacting or not please anyone

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