Me 37 male and my girlfriend 24 female have been dating for now about 9 months and she is honestly the best thing that has ever happened to me, but there is one thing that gets to me every now and than is how badly she procrasts stuff and this time is bleeding into my schedule and money, i want to rip into her about cause it is driving me crazy. But also she has gone through alot over the past few weeks. Here is what is going on. A few weeks ago for my birthday we where supposed to go on a beech trip which i had planned on asking her to be my wife. She had did 90% of the planning but i snuck a few things in there so i could do that. But the night we where supposed go we went out for drinks with her roommates which i had planned so i could double check with them about asking her for marriage. But that night someone had drugged her she had to spend that week in the hospital, and it was bad. I was able to reschule everything after words about the beech trip cause i know she would need and i knew she did not want to skip the trip, So she made me reschule everything. But we where supposed to go last week but she found out she had a ton of assiginments due this week so we had to cancel AGIAN. So we just reschule everthing for this weekend. Well guess what she forgot to requst off this week at her work so i had to cancel them this. All this reschuling has cost both of us 300 bucks and for to canel trips for job interviews for coaching jobs in flordia and for me to canel stuff i had going for grad school. I understand the first time is out of our control but for us to have to do this 3 more times and it up costing us money i drew the lime tere so am i an asshole for want to call her out for doing all this mess at the last minuate. and what should i do. We both do not have very open schedules for months now cause we need the money back to go on this trip