Alright here’s a pretty terrible one and I’m probably the AH. But I have a girlfriend now fairly recent and it kinda just came up as circumstance and I figured if I’m acting like her boyfriend being exclusive and all that may as well put the label on it. I had a conversation the other day with my ex girlfriend who I had previously not talked to in a year or so, and it was not the conversation I wanted but regardless I recognized that I still had feelings for her but that our relationship is not really something feasible. ( strictly due to her feelings for me). So am I the AH for pursuing this relationship with another women simply for the fact of pursuing something else with who I want is not obtainable?