Our sex life has been embarrassing for a while and he’s started bragging about women he’s slept with and who he would sleep with. He humiliated me by blocking me on social media and adding women he enjoyed having sex with.

My husband needs rotator cuff surgery to relieve his chronic pain. I’ve been secretly saving three months of wages so he can get this surgery done without worrying about money.

I want to leave and divorce with this money but feel bad that he needs this surgery.