My bf (21m) and I (20f) have only been intimate a handful of times, he told me after the first time we did it he actually didn’t feel anything and has always been like this and there’s only one kind of condom he can feel with but it’s like a bad hand job. He got a variety pack for us to try but the lube was too much that he thought he came and just didn’t feel it till he grabbed another and saw it was just the condom lube. He won’t say anything in the moment but when I ask after if he could feel anything it’s a no. I slept over one night and woke up to him putting it in at first I let it happen but then I thought about the condom so I moved and asked if he had one on and said no and obviously I was upset. He apologized and felt really bad and wasn’t thinking which doesn’t make it any better. Hes offered to pay for birth control after I’ve brought up probably needing to get on it for this relationship to work. But he also said if bc will mess with my hormones he wouldn’t want me to stay on it for him. We still do other stuff to get each other off but we haven’t in like 2 weeks. We have gone out on dates but haven’t done anything intimate. We both don’t live alone so that complicates doing it but I know he’s been really overwhelmed and stressed with work so Ik it would probably help. Should I like get a hotel room and buy all of the different kinds of condoms till we find one that works?