I (28) am graduating from college this weekend with my bachelors. As I go to school virtually, my graduation is four hours away from my house. My sister and my best friend are both coming from out of state. When my sister booked her flight, I asked her if she was staying in the hotel with me and my family (husband and child) she said no, she was staying with a friend. Yesterday, she asked me how far the hotel is that we are staying at from her friends; then how far her friends is from the ceremony. I was really busy with work and couldn’t get back to her on the second half but sent her the address of the ceremony. I never heard from her again until today. She asked me again how far and I told her 45 minutes from her friends house to the ceremony And my hotel is 35 minutes from her friends house. She had asked me if she could do my make up at her friends house, because I had asked her ahead of time to do it however, I said if it needs to be done at the ceremony that would be fine with me. I told her that that is a lot of driving on a day that I have a time crunch, she said to me that it would be a very expensive Uber. I told her she could stay with me and my family Saturday night, and come to the graduation with us, and I would drop her off at her friends house after to this she did not reply. I told her if not, it’s probably cheaper to rent a car. She said I do not have money to rent a car, but she had advised me she was Uber in from one airport to her friends house and stopping for coffee at a local coffee shop on the way and that she was Uber from her friends house to an alternate airport on Monday. I told her this alone is about $100 in Ubers, which it is. I fact checked it. Then I did research myself and saw a rental for $130 and I told her again she can either stay with us Saturday and come with us to the ceremony or she would have to find her own way there. She has left me on read and I feel she is upset with me even though this is my graduation and she is choosing to stay with her friend. Am I the asshole?