Son (19) and GF (18) have frequent sleepovers and I asked him to take it elsewhere. I keep finding her in my house in the mornings. He doesn’t clean up completely when she’s around, dishes in sink, spices left on counter, Cheeto bags in family room. He went ballistic when asked saying “I’m making a big deal” and it’s “mostly” cleaned up. AITAH for being annoyed by these behaviors and wanting him to take his sleepovers to her parents home ? I feel like I should kick him out for the disrespect but he only makes $13/hr.