I struggle to be excited for our wedding in three months. My fiancé just decided to tell me two weeks ago he wants a prenup to protect his 401k and future earnings. I mean whatever, I’m a teacher and don’t make as much but I’m set to inherit a crazy amount of money. He keeps telling me he just wants to protect his retirement. Never mind the fact we have talked about me raising our babies and being a stay at home mom for a few years. I want a fair retirement too! I have a retirement but definitely not as much as he does.

Just the timing and the fact that his NFL brother didn’t even ask his gf for a prenup before they got married hurts a lot. Ugh jealous. I just feel blindsided and an unequal power dynamic, lack of faith in us. I really thought we would build an empire TOGETHER to pass down to our kids on day.

I have a ducked up sense of humor and yesterday I picked him up from work (I borrowed his truck for the day) at a chemical plant and I drove up blasting the song Gold digger” I had a good ole time jumping out of his truck shaking my ass just being goofy. That’s not me though. Please I grew up rich and he grew up poor. This is not relevant but baby if I were a gold digger, I wouldn’t be after him….