So my parents have decided not to attend my wedding. They think it's wasteful and they won't support it.

My fiancée went NC with her own family years ago so if none of our parents are going to attend then what is the point of throwing a wedding? She is very upset.

I told her that it's OK. If no one wants to support us then we will elope. We are going to use our wedding budget for our honeymoon as well. This seemed to cheer her up and she has been busy replanning our honeymoon.

I told my parents that the wedding is canceled and they told me I made the right decision and asked if I can help my sister now. I said no. They ruined my wedding plans so from now on they can't expect anything from me. I will prioritize myself because apparently no one else will.