So from the last time I wrote a lot has happened. One Me and friend are no longer friends and me and Samantha are also no longer friends. Me and friend got into a argument over text about it and refused to admit he was wrong in anyway. For some more context Samantha has money sometimes but very rarely she will only tell us when we get to the store she has no money for some reason. I never minded unless she told me before hand she may not be able to pay. Friend has bpd and the other bpd and has alters and is now blaming me for them showing up more. By the way friend said we had no bad blood until now I noticed he does this every time we argue but when he does decide to speak on it they get mad when I bring up that it could have been resolved if they told me sooner, instead they let it build up to get mad later when I'm mad at them. Friend also brings up that there S/O is trying to end themselves which was completely irrelevant to the conversation and I feel like they are trying to make me feel bad I truely don't know but they told me to F off so I did. Friend has a bad habit of dating only people that can understand them on a very personal level but all it does is stress them out because they all turn out to be heavily suicidal and have bad mental health issues. Two times I got dragged into it making me fail a grade trying to take care of them both, the second time I can't enter a certain part of town because I swere if they talk to me I'm going to air there stuff out in front of there friends. There's a lot more to this story but friend has done something's to me when we were dating that they don't know about because of there bad memory and I really want to protect them from it because I don't want to be the reason someone ends themselves. I feel like there current partner is different which I'm very happy about but I'm worried for them because my friend can be a little creepy. The only reason I told friend they weren't was because they were having a mental breakdown. Everytime I stopped being friends with them felt like a freedom because I didn't feel like I needed to stop someone from ending thereselves almost every phone call or text. I can admit I have been a dick head in our friendship at times but they have a set mentality that they can do no wrong until they do wrong and cry about it. Friend posted a picture of another friend calling him a pedo because he heard me say that someone was calling him a pedo so I told him that he wasn't no dang pedo because the person I heard it from was our other friend that says wild shit all the time, other frind apologiezed and had to tell me to tell him that it was a joke and friend took down the post. I've told him we need to detach and I've been doing that but he doesn't seem to get that I don't want to be friends with him anymore and theyve been pushing me to meet there alters even though I told them I was uncomfortable with that. Also can someone explain how borderline personality disorder works because? They reason they want to continue our friendship because I'm literally been with them through thick and thin but for there success cost my lost. Now that I'm writing this I'm now seeing that this is the most toxic bull shit ive been through in my life. They only want to be my friend because im available and not out of true care, they are attached to me because there used to me being there all the time and when that starts to falter so do there mask. That really showed last summer when I was going thru some shit and as expected they cussed me out and left and then I texted them through TikTok telling them my problems and they deadass blocked me over someone they met over a week ago 2 years gone because they fell in love with someone who couldn't love them🤦🏽‍♀️. Anyway I'm going to bed now I have my answer already.