Hi It's not that I don’t like this girl; it’s more that I feel like she doesn’t like me. I also feel like I can’t be myself around her. She makes me feel uncomfortable, and I have to be very wary of what I say. The fact that she lives next door to me as my flatmate (cant move out) makes it even harder, as it feels like I can’t escape her. She’s everywhere and is part of my friend group.

My best friend likes her, and I’ve told her that this girl makes me feel uncomfortable. It seems like she’s constantly trying to insert herself where she doesn’t belong. I know that sounds mean, but it’s how I feel. I don’t think she’s a bad person; I just feel like she’s not my type of person. Having to be around her so much has made me think this way.

I really don’t know what to do. Maybe I’m the problem for feeling this way, but I just want to feel comfortable in my own space and with my friends. It’s a tricky situation, and I’m not sure how to navigate it.