Throwaway because my friends follow my main.

Also, if this sounds AI, it’s because I had chatgpt edit it since my English was all over the place, and I wanted it to be more concise.

I (22F) was in a long-distance relationship with my ex (20M), let’s call him Enzo. We met through an online game, hit it off, and after a while of him pursuing me (even after initially backing off because of the distance), I agreed to date him. We were together for about a year and a half. We never met in person due to being in different countries and still in school, but we were very committed—or at least I thought we were.

Toward the end of our relationship, he became distant. He’d get weirdly defensive over simple questions, like who he was hanging out with or what he was up to. Eventually, he accidentally added me and another girl to the same group chat, which is how I found out he had been seeing someone else. She had even visited him, and based on the timing, I’m pretty sure it overlapped with our relationship.

I never confronted him directly, but shortly after that incident, he told me he “needed space” and broke up with me. He denied there was anyone else and blamed the distance. I didn’t push it—I was hurt and just tried to move on.

Fast forward three months, and now I’m seeing stories of him and the same girl vacationing together. It seems like they’re a full-on couple. I’m fairly certain she doesn’t know I existed or that he was in a relationship with me when they started seeing each other.

Now I’m torn. A part of me wants to reach out to her—not to be petty or sabotage their relationship—but because I think she deserves to know the truth. Another part of me wonders if I should just leave it alone and not risk looking like a bitter ex trying to stir up drama.

Would it be wrong to message her? If I did, what would be the right way to say it?

Thanks in advance for any advice.