Throwaway bc i don’t want anyone i actually know to know yet, and apologies if this isn’t the right sub for this, I don’t know where else id post?

I 26f and my husband 29m have been trying for a baby for about 3 years with no luck. we’ve tried everything, and my parents know how bad of a struggle it’s been, we’re extremely close and they’re ready to be grandparents so it’s not like it wouldnt be happy news when it happens.

I found out I was pregnant Monday. My mom’s birthday is next Saturday, and my sisters who both live out of state and my grandmother are coming up to celebrate with her. We don’t get together often so I thought it might be a good opportunity to tell everyone, but I don’t want to seem like im taking attention from her. The only time everyone will be together is for her birthday dinner, but I really don’t want to make it about me.

Would I be an absolute asshole if I announced it at her birthday dinner? Please tell me honestly, if it’s a shitty thing to do I absolutely will not do it. Thanks!