By cielitamama • Score: 2 • April 27, 2025 6:41 AM
I posted about my sister before like plenty of times, but I feel like I get mix opinions on every situation that to be honest I don’t know if my opinion even matters or even valid anymore. My sister is mentally abusive, and she manipulates people into doing things for her. I babysit my sister kid for $20 for 13 hours. I did it to be kind because I know that she needed a babysitter, but the problem is that I have anemia in my own infant to take care of. I feel bad because I don’t wanna watch him because I’m too sick too and that’s why I quit my job because I am too sick to work. I could work in office job, but her kid needs attention 24/7. My kid is peaceful and quiet I mean for now lol.
My sister prostitutes and it goes against my religion, but she always forces me to watch him or guilt trip me into watching her kid at night. I stopped watching it because it goes against my religion. But I still watch him during the day when she goes to her actual job..
But this is not about religion this time
I’m 18 years old and I put my life aside to watch her kid so she could go to work which is kind of messed up to be honest, but I let it be because I’m a people pleaser sadly. I was talking to my mom the other day and I told her how depressed I was because I feel like I’m doing things for her and not for me because she guilt trip. If you are rereading this post, I posted another Reddit post on the same community page about my sister and my religion, but I feel like a lot of people took it the wrong way because people do not know her like I do. I have my own place and she wants live with me and had multiple men come into my home for her night job. I told her that she either quit her job /do it somewhere else or she has to move out. Which she moved out. My sister is violent disrespectful. One time she even smoked a blunt in my home where my baby was only two months old and one month old while the babies were in the house. I told her that that was a last warning and that she was out.
Me and my sister had two incidents with two different of her boyfriends . I have more of a curve body than my sister so she will make me cover up whenever I go around the guy she liked. One time she even tried to fight me with one of the guys told her that my butt was bigger than her.
My sister has ruined every single one of my birthdays that I have since I was 11 .
I wanna cut her off so badly because she’s so disrespectful and let me tell you guys she has 10 times more than this, but that is too much to even write . She’s extremely disrespectful to me and my mom and we do everything and I bar helper and the baby, but she does not want any help and talk shit about us being on her back but then come and ask for money.
I finally stood up to her and told her that I was not watching her kid anymore because I am drained and I am tired of her manipulative ways. And I also do not support What she doing at night instead of being with her kid. She leaves her kid with her boyfriend, mom, which is not the babies biological grandma by the way. I do think that the step grandma or whatever is a good caretaker, but my sister abuses her and leave the baby with her 24 seven to go through drugs.
My sister sometimes screams at me calling me a bad mom and I don’t wanna watch her kid and she shows up to randomly picking on the door telling me to take the kid and just leave them in the front door. That is not even half of the crap that she has done at Me, but I wanna cut her off so bad because I’m so sick of her taking advantage of me and the way she talks to me is crazy.
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