By cat13131313 • Score: 1 • April 17, 2025 3:08 AM
My girlfriend (20F) and I (21F) have been having some relationship troubles recently and I kind of want to end it, but I also kind of don't- heres what's been going on.
Going into this relationship I knew that she had some mental health issues in the past and currently with depression/anxiety/ADHD, and while I can't relate I understand that I need to be there for her and times will get hard-
But there have been so many instances of them having a breakdown (sobbing, distancing from the world) over very small things, or having a breakdown over something I say and do (such as not texting at the right time, texting to little etc)
And we have been having the hard discussions of "this is how I feel and this is what I need from you, what can I do for you" since ~February, but nothing has changed on her end, and I think her insecurity in our relationship and her need to "create" issues via interrogation and making things up in her head has increased.
It's been really hard for me. I care so much for her, and I don't want to break up, but I think I have reached my limit of how unhappy I can feel, and I not sure if I want to wait until she feels better again.
WIBTAH?
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