Please bear with me I don’t understand Reddit but need some advice.

I’ve had the same friend group since grade 6, and we are in our senior year of high school now. There are four of us total: me, Amy, Rhea, and Jenny. Rhea and Jenny are super close but that works out because Amy and I have become very close as well throughout the years.

As graduation grows near, conversations about our future increase. We’re all going to different universities but most of us have an understanding that we will try to hang out at least once a month to stay connected, except for Rhea. Rhea is under the impression that once we graduate, we will most likely not be friends anymore. Before you ask, we know this because she quite literally said that to Amy during class one day last semester.

When we asked her about this a few days after, her response was along the lines of “well life’s gonna happen and we’ll probably just stop seeing each other.” I’m not saying that this doesn’t happen to friend groups after high school but my issue is that whenever this topic comes up, she seems dumbfounded by the idea that people stay friends because they put in the effort to do so.

Jenny seems to brush this off as just the usual attitude from Rhea but it’s really starting to bother me. I mean I’m not crazy right? If you have one core friend group in your life, you should be willing to keep them in your life after graduation?

Every time we talk about this it gets laughed off but next time I’m considering really trying to figure out why she feels this way. Has the past 7 years of friendship not meant the same to her? Is this some way of her trying to cut us off or does she really just not care? Or I’m I going crazy? Like I said, we’re going to different universities but we will all still be living at home (roughly 10-15 minutes from each other) and two of us have our license/ a car.

So Reddit, would I be the asshole for calling out my friend for giving up on our friendship?