📝 WIBTAH If I told my boyfriend to stop being friends with 3 girls who don't like me?

By Extreme-Aerie7268 • Score: 1 • April 15, 2025 4:25 AM


I 17F and my boyfriend 17M have been dating for almost 8 months and I love him to bits but I can't just look over him being friends with these girls. For context (fake names) I'm going to call them Katie, Ashley, and Anna . So back in middle school I actually used to be friends with Anna and I was nice to Katie and Ashley but we weren't close. When Anna met Katie and Ashley she shut me out almost completely. I would try to say hi and talk to her anytime I could but she ignored me every time. After awhile I moved on, but I was sad because if anyone reading this has lost a friend in a similar way knows how it feels. Right after Anna and I stopped being friends, Ashley asked me if I liked a certain guy in our grade, and I did. But when I told her I wasn't thinking because I knew she was fake. So right after I told her, she asked out my crush. They dated for about a week, I'm not sure how it ended but when she was with him she always rubbed it in my face. Fast forward to today I met my boyfriend because He is one of my best friends brother. (she is completely fine with me dating him) We have a pretty big friend group. I'm a mostly quiet and shy person but he is more outspoken and extroverted. When ever the friend group hangs out he'll hang out with Katie, Ashley, and Anna. I trust him completely and I don't think he would go for girls like them but he still is friends with them and hangs out with them. He doesn't know that They have been crappy to me in the past. I know that they always talk crap about me behind my back and they've talked crap about my boyfriends sister to my face. I don't want to be a bitchy girlfriend and I don't want to complain or be a bother to him. Whenever the friend group hangs out I don't want him to feel left out of anything. I'm not sure what to do.

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