My wife 29F was using my iPad 28M and went into my Spotify and looked through my recent history and saw that I had listened to a song called “sunshine and rain…” by kali Uchis, I have no idea who this is or anything. Spotify recommended it on the homepage and I clicked on it and listened to like 20 seconds and hated it. I didn’t even realize how provocative the album cover was at the time, I wasn’t even paying attention. My wife thinks that I clicked it because of that though and is now accusing me of not respecting her because the album cover is “ a naked woman”. She is furious and leaving me over this. I am so mad about it because to me it’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. A 30 second thing that happened that I don’t even remember doing because I didn’t care at all about it! I haven’t even thought about it at all until she brought it up. We have an agreement not to watch porn or masturbate, and she’s saying I broke that. I find this very controlling and I just feel so violated. I don’t know what to do. AITAH?