Hello guys,

My (19 year old) sister went out yesterday at around 9pm with her Situationship (not even her boyfriend) and my mom didn’t know. We both live in our mom’s place, our house is pretty conservative and religious. My sister already got with 2 other guys that never committed to her and one of these times she got pregnant.

So when she was going out my mom asked her where she was going and with who. She said she’s going out with a girl, I knew she wasn’t but I remained silent simply because it’s none of my business. She, however told my mom she’s gonna come back home at 12am. As the time passed and 3am reached she was no where to be found. She texted my mom telling her she’s gonna spend the night at her friend’s house and never replied to my mom’s messages again.

My mom told me to not open the door for her and let her learn her lesson. I said ok to my mom and then went and texted my sister telling her to stay wherever she is until an appropriate time.

At 7am she knocked the door. She kept calling me but I didn’t pick up cuz I didn’t wanna be in between all of this. So after spam calling me for 5min she called my mom and her and my mom had an argument.

My mom asked her where were you? Who are you with? My sister kept replying it’s none of your business bitch just open the door (btw it was raining too) my mom said I’m not gonna open the door to a hoe that’s spending the night outside and coming back at the morning.

Moving forward, she ended up opening the door after a couple of minutes. My sister started yelling and telling my mom to get the fuck out of her face. My mom was asking where were you? Were you being a slut with a guy? My sister said it’s none of your business I’m almost 20. My mom said move out then.

The situation escalated rapidly. My sister screamed like an actual maniac I’m pretty sure the whole neighborhood heard her. She started pushing my mom and that’s when I came forward and I told her to calm down, but even that wasn’t working. My mom told me to stay in my room and let her handle this.

Mind you, my sister has been WARNED a million times about situations like this. Hanging out with a man and spending the night without telling my mom until it’s late. You know pisses me off tho? Is that she creates this whole situation for a man that doesn’t even commit to her!!! She got actual anger issues.

So, the situation started to calm down.

My sister called me after a few hours to go into her room. She started acting like the victim. I told her no you’re wrong. You knew that this was gonna happen. I texted you. She got mad at me. I told her we’re not like other people. We have values. You can’t be spending the night at a man’s house, a man that won’t even give you a title. You had to beg him for flowers. Seriously, it makes me feel like she’s cheap as fuck.

I’m sorry I don’t judge people that are like this, but it seems very wrong especially given that she’s in our family.